💭 Chase your dreams with energy and focus, but keep one truth close. Your company has a backup plan. Your family only has you.
Grow your career, but never trade the moments that cannot be repeated.
Your replacement job posting already exists.
It is saved in the HR folder 📂.
It only waits for a date 📅.
Your family does not have that luxury. There is no template for missing memories.
Here is the math that business school never taught us:
• Your quick work email takes ten minutes
• Your child soccer game lasts sixty minutes
• Ten minutes missed at every game becomes one full game gone
• Number of childhood games that return later: zero
➡️ Three questions worth asking yourself
1 Will your boss remember that midnight email in five years
2 Will your child remember the play you missed in twenty
3 Which memory do you want to carry
Your company has
• Backup plans
• Replacement procedures
• Ready candidates
Your family has
• One you
• Moments that cannot be replaced
• A timeline that never rewinds
When an employee leaves, the company posts the job in forty eight hours.
When you miss your family moments, the space stays empty forever.
💡 A better way to measure success
❌ Old way
• Constant availability
• First in and last out
• Working weekends
✅ New way
• Present at dinner
• Phones down at bedtime 📱
• Memories created with intention ✨
This week, whenever after hour work calls your attention, pause and ask yourself:
Am I replaceable here or irreplaceable there
Your job can replace you in forty eight hours.
Your family memories need you right now.
Choose with clarity. Log out. Walk home. Be present where it truly matters.
Because that so called urgent email can wait.
That bedtime story cannot.
Jo-Anne Okondo CHRP(K) Kavoo Mutua (MIHRM) Certified Mediator
#worklifebalance #familyfirst #realtalk #corporateLife #thetruth #lifelessons
Machine Learning Engineer I Bsc Electrical and Electronics I Projects Engineer | CCNA | Project Management | Fiber Optic | AutoCAD | Design & Construction LV, MV & HT Power Lines | Data Analyst & Green Energy Champion.
12 days ago
This is the reminder we all needed. Work will always take what you give it. Family simply wants you pr
Human rights lawyer focused on women’s and girls’ rights, gender equality, SGBV accountability, and SRHR especially in conflict settings. Committed to justice, advocacy, and systemic change.
12 days ago
The toughest part is realizing your boss will forget your late night email but your child will remember every time you were not in the audience. That is the real performance review.
People brag about being irreplaceable at work until the job ad appears before they have even packed their desk. Meanwhile the family seat at the dinner table stays empty and noticed.